How Do People Fall in Love? - Why is it So Addictive?

Here is some insight you can use to try to make anyone fall in love with you. (Caveat: It's not infallible -- absolutely nothing is infallible -- so will not work in some cases). Nevertheless, it can be very effective in helping to make someone fall in love with you. It is based on knowing how successful relationships work. Here's what you need to know...

So, how to make anyone fall in love with you? Putting it simply, falling in love is based on a combination of two factors: strong sexual attraction paired with friendship. It really does sound simple when put like that, doesn't it, but that is really all there is to romantic love. But how do you make it happen?

Putting yourself into a romantic mood really seems to help with understanding how to make someone fall love with you, you don't want to approach this in an uptight frame of mind if you are to be creative -- and you DO need to be creative, as will become clear.

Okay, let's take a look first at the sexual attraction side of making anyone fall in love with you. This is how love usually begins -- with attraction. The good news is that attraction is affected by personality -- both the personality of the person doing the attracting and that of the person who is being attracted. Attraction can be modified -- remember that. Attraction depends not just on the physical characteristics or attributes nature has given you, but on how you present them. For example, it is said that 'clothes make the man' -- well, they can make the woman too -- anyone can benefit from this. Think about it, if you wear clothes that seem to say "I'm above mixing with the likes of you" or "I'm too lazy to bother with nice clothes", you are giving out signals about yourself. Look at the clothes of the person you want to make fall in love with you. What are they saying? This can give you clues to the person's personality, that you can learn from. But if their clothes are not saying anything obvious then you might want to consider dressing in a similar or closely related style (don't copy them exactly -- that would spell disaster) on the principal that sometimes at least, 'like attracts like'.

The lesson here in how to make anyone fall in love with you is to try to learn what you can about the 'special someone' you are interested in -- not in a sneaky way or even a stalking way! Never invade anyone else's privacy. Even apart from legal and ethical considerations the person would never fall in love with you then! You can easily learn what you need to know by seeing what kind of clothes the person wears and by chatting to him or her about what they have recently been doing for fun and recreation. Is she interested in soccer? Mention that you are thinking of going to the match on Saturday but have no one to go with... Is he interested in autos? Perhaps you are thinking of buying a new car and would like some knowledgeable advice in choosing one? These are just examples -- be creative!

Going back to appearance and attraction for a moment, the other lesson here is to look not only at your clothes but your hair, and if you are a woman, your make-up too. Many men appreciate a natural, minimal make-up look. Likewise, many women prefer a man to look well groomed with clean neat hair, whether it is long or short. Having clean, white-looking teeth is important too, as is smelling good. Side Note: Of course, if you want to turn someone off you can use all of these things too -- if you are asking for example "How to make a man fall out of love with me?" then simply do the opposite of all that I am saying here! Bad habits can used to put people off, or by getting rid of those habits, to attract someone too.